What's up?! Need ideas

Full speed over here... Baby boy is at AMERICAN Camp in Oslo... & having a BLAST.. I hope he remembers to take loads & loads of pictures ... This is the first time to be away from us (not counting grandparents) & seems to be doing welll.... Birthday planning is ON... Eva's 5th birthday is next MONDAY... When did she get soo big? Guess what kid of b-day party we ar e going to have? Monday is also our our wedding anniversary... & I am CLUELESS...what to do? I hate to blow it off A G A I N.... But kindda impossible to go out - when it is also your kids b-day---- Neither of us want or NEED anything.... So what to do? Any cute ideas or suggestions...