When I turned 40 last Feb... I was a little   Incredibly Disappointed. OPRAH .. PROMISED life would get BETTER after 40... The day after my 40th birthday.. I was thinking OPRAH was a BIG LIAR.. Better? my ASS..  - I was miserable.... But as the days,rolled into weeks... my life started to change...  FOR THE BETTER...  I remember a few years back(38), thinking that  " this is it..."  sigh.. might as well give it up... I was feeling OLD & DUMPY.. INVISABLE  I was stuck in a dead-end job, wearing comfortable shoes..... doing the same shit.. week in, week out...  No longer felt like anything more than a mom & a wife...    I had lost my mojo.. & didn't think I would be able to get it back....  but somehow.. someway... I did.. I have gotten my MOJO back... Or at least I am working on it.. and wondering if 40 REALLY is the new 30? Instead of dwelling on my glory days... I am pretty sure I have many more AWESOME experiences ahead of me...  I am learning...